February 23-29, 1916
Before I can begin sharing Kate Roosevelt’s diary entry for the last week of February, 1916, I must first re-visit the year 1891 and escort readers to a “Charming Wedding,” as reported in the New York Times. I have been sharing the life of Kate Shippen Roosevelt through her diary entries written beginning in 1912, and many times along the way I have had to stop in amazement as I read her most candid comments relating to people she knew and places she went.
Horace Greeley on his farm in Chappaqua, 1869
When I began editing the diary written by the widow of Hilborne Roosevelt, President Theodore Roosevelt’s first cousin, I was ready for her to share stories about family members and what life was like for a wealthy widow at the turn-of-the-twentieth century, but I was not prepared for the name-dropping that I would encounter in nearly every one of her writings. In each one I was pleasantly surprised at how knowledgeably she discussed world events and the important participants, most of whom she knew on a first-name basis. In just a few words, the diary of Kate Shippen Roosevelt shared with me and hopefully for my readers a slice of life that has long -since passed. Sometimes it has even reminded relatives of the Roosevelt and Shippen Families of fond family memories and has also peaked the interest of historians who are just getting to know Kate Roosevelt through The Dowager’s Diary. Thanks to this journal, as I write, descendants of the family and members of the history community have contacted me to add an obscure fact or an ancestral anecdote.
This was the case just the other day. After New York’s Social Diary shared The Dowager’s Diary on their Facebook Page, a member of the Westchester County Historical Society in New York sent me a note. He said the he immediately recognized the name of Kate Roosevelt as a member of an impressive guest list that helped celebrate what the New York Times referred to as “A charming wedding.”
Now a whole new cast of characters was introduced to help round out the life of Kate Roosevelt going back as far as 1891. Since I only have access to her diary through the years 1912-1919, it is always interesting to fill in some of the blanks of her earlier life. In 1891, at the height of the “Gilded Age,” she had been a widow for just five years, but a very well-connected one at that and her attendance at the wedding of Horace Greeley’s daughter added to her celebrity status.
The Bride, Gabrielle Greeley
The wedding of Gabrielle Greeley and Reverend Frank Montrose Clendenin, the pastor of St. Peter’s Episcopal Church in the Bronx was solemnized at St. John’s Episcopal Church in Chappaqua on Sunday, April 23, 1891. The bride’s deceased father was Horace Greeley, the former owner of the New York Tribune and a notoriously controversial politician. He served as a United States congressman and ran against Ulysses S. Grant in the 1872 presidential election on the Liberal Republican Party Ticket and coined the phrase “Go west young man.”
The newlyweds were anything but a young couple. Because of their religious calling and active participation in the Episcopal Church, neither thought that marriage would be in their future. Miss Greeley, known as “Lady Bountiful of Chappaqua,” was thirty-two and Reverend Clendenin, a graduate of the Princeton Theological Seminary, was thirty-seven when they said their “I do’s.”
The Groom: Rev. Frank Montrose Clendenin, 1900
The New York Times described the simple but charming wedding, reporting that the bride was given away by an old Greeley Family Friend, the Reverend Thomas McKee Brown, the rector of St. Mary the Virgin Church located on Longacre Square in New York City. The area is now known as Times Square.
The newspaper reported, “The bride wore a gown of silver brocade with a train trimmed in chiffon, the latter embroidered with little bowknots. A veil of Duchesse Lace was caught in the back of the head with a diamond pin. A bouquet of lilies of the valley and ferns were placed on top of a prayer book. The only attendant was Miss Elizabeth Chamberlain of Pleasantville, New York.”
Elizabeth Chamberlain’s Home, the Orchard
Elizabeth Chamberlain was the spinster daughter of Ivory Chamberlain, the editor of the New York Herald. Miss Chamberlain’s lifelong, domestic partner, Miss Maria Gerard Messenger, was the organist. Independently wealthy, the spinsters were active in church and charitable pursuits in the town of Chappaqua. In old age, they shared the Chamberlain estate known as “The Orchard.”
After the small church ceremony, the bride went to the rectory to change into a grey wool traveling suit and matching hat and the Times reported, “At eleven o’clock, she and her husband made their appearance at the railroad station where the drawing room car was waiting on a siding to take them to New York City.”
More than twelve hundred invitations were sent out, requesting the honor of the ranks of the “Who’s Who” in the United States to attend a wedding reception at the home of Miss Maria Messenger at 114 East 19th Street.
Kate Roosevelt and her sisters, the spinsters Shippen along with her married sister Anna Davis and brother, William Shippen made the impressive guest list.
Rev. Henry Codman Potter
The party-goers included many noted Episcopal bishops and clerics of the day. Reverend G. H. Houghton, the founder of the Church of the Transfiguration also known as the “The Little Church Around the Corner” on Mott Street in Manhattan and Henry Potter, the Bishop of the Episcopal Diocese of New York provided a sacred presence.
Mrs. Washington Roebling, a wedding guest
The non-sectarian society members that were listed in the wedding announcement were impressive to say the least and included: Mr. and Mrs. James M. Waterbury, of the Waterbury Rope Company; the pioneering philanthropist, astronomer, Miss Catherine Bruce; the former New York City Mayor and Mrs. William Grace; Mrs. Washington Roebling, the widow of the builder of the Brooklyn Bridge; General and Mrs. Louis di Cesnola, the first director of the Metropolitan Museum of Art and their daughters; the author, Mary Mapes Dodge who wrote Hans Brinker and the Silver Skates; Bishop Potter’s daughter and son-in-law, Mr. and Mrs. Winthrop Cowdin; Honorable Oscar Straus, Commerce and Labor Secretary under President Theodore Roosevelt; John Hay, a former member of Greeley’s New York Tribune staff who was also President Lincoln’s private secretary and future Secretary of State under President Theodore Roosevelt; Esther Cleveland, Horace Greeley’s sister and her daughters and Mrs. Choate, the widow of Dr. George Choate. Horace Greeley was a patient at Choate’s Psychiatric Sanitarium in Chappaqua. He went there to regain his mental health after losing the 1872 presidential election to General Ulysses S. Grant and died just weeks later.
Left to Right: Secretary John Nicolay, President Lincoln and Secretary John Hay
With the Greeley wedding over, we will now travel ahead twenty five years, to 1916 where another wedding is on the mind of Mrs. Kate Roosevelt, the upcoming nuptials of her nephew, Oliver Wolcott Roosevelt. To celebrate the engagement, she attended a reception for the couple at her sister- in- law, Laura Roosevelt’s home on East 31st Street. As the widow of Dr. James West Roosevelt, Laura played gracious host to many.
According to the book, Edith Kermit Roosevelt: Portrait of a First Lady by Sylvia Jukes Morris, “In the beginning of February, 1912, Edith Roosevelt went to Laura Roosevelt’s town house on East 31st Street for a few weeks. She said she wanted to see a few plays and operas and friends, but in effect she was upset with Theodore’s growing involvement in politics and wished to disassociate herself from the Republican intriguers thronging Sagamore Hill.”
Theodore Roosevelt in Milwaukee, Oct. 1912
Maybe the former first lady had an inkling of events to come. It was at Laura Roosevelt’s residence that Edith was staying in October, 1912, when Theodore Roosevelt was shot while campaigning on the “Bull Moose” Progressive Party Ticket in Milwaukee for a third term as president. According to her niece, Corinne Robinson, Edith Roosevelt had moved to New York once again to stay with Aunt Laura and that evening to two women went to the theater together. Morris’s book recreated the scene, “They were seated on the aisle, with Edith on the inside. There was a spare seat next to her for Laura’s son, Oliver, who was working at his cousin, Theodore’s New York City Progressive Party Headquarters at the Hotel Manhattan and had not yet arrived. He did not do so until after the curtain rose. As Oliver sat down, Edith reached out and touched his knee in greeting, only to find that he was shaking violently. She realized at once that something had happened to Theodore.”
Edith Roosevelt
In silent inquiry, Edith Roosevelt gripped Oliver’s hand. The groom-to-be was the one that first informed Edith that telegrams had come in from Milwaukee with news of the assassination attempt. “Edith grasped his hand and asked Oliver to go back to headquarters and make sure the news was not worse. He did so and soon re-appeared to report that Cousin Theodore had in fact been “scratched” but had kept on with his speech.” Even though Laura urged her to leave the theater, the two women stayed until the end of the performance. Edith insisted on staying, feeling re-assured at the good news Oliver Roosevelt had given her.
Whatever the mood, happy, sad, annoyed or worried, the Roosevelts stuck together. Now they were preparing to welcome a new member into America’s “Royal Family.” Grace Temple Olmstead was the bride-to-be and her future mother-in-law, Laura Roosevelt was pleased to introduce her to society and to two important family members, Kate and Edith Roosevelt.
Sharon Hazard’s Dowager’s Diary appears on Thursday.
Opening Photo:
Horace Greeley and his New York Tribune Staff
Greeley, third from left, front row
Library of Congress
Photo Two:
Horace Greeley on his farm in Chappaqua, 1869
Wiki
Photo Three:
The Bride, Gabrielle Greeley
Westchester Archives
Photo Four:
The Groom: Rev. Frank Montrose Clendenin, 1900
New Castle Historical Society
Photo Five:
Elizabeth Chamberlain’s Home, the Orchard
Westchester County Historical Society
Photo Six:
Rev. Henry Codman Potter
wiki
Photo Seven:
Mrs. Washington Roebling, a wedding guest
Brooklyn Museum
Photo Eight:
Left to Right: Secretary John Nicolay, President Lincoln and Secretary John Hay
Library of Congress
Photo Nine:
Theodore Roosevelt in Milwaukee, Oct. 1912
Library of Congress
Photo Ten:
Edith Roosevelt
wiki
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